10 TIPS HIDUP BAHAGIA SETIAP HARI

HAPPINESS IS LOVE WHATEVER YOU GOT .. Kebahagiaan itu ketika kita mencintai apa yang kita miliki ...

Sebuah pesan untuk hidup bahagia yang sederhana namun penuh makna. Saya sepakat dengan kalimat tersebut. Sebuah ajakan bagi kita untuk mensyukuri segar-hijaunya rumput di halaman rumah sendiri.

Kira-kira apa yang bisa kita lakukan atau hal-hal apa yang membuat kita hidup bahagia setiap hari? Daftar tips berikut ini semoga bisa menjadi pengingat kita bersama sebagai upaya agar selalu berbahagia setiap hari.

1. Bangun pagi-pagi ...

Bangun lebih awal dan berjanjilah untuk merayakan hari ini dengan tidak menyia-nyiakannya sedetikpun. Lihat cahaya mentari yang menyingsing di ujung timur sana. Seperti itu juga semangat bersinar di dada anda.

2. Nikmati makan ...

Jangan tergesa-gesa. Cobalah sekali ini gigit dan kunyah pelah-pelan makanan anda. Dari tiap kunyahannya, rasakan betapa enak rasanya. Nikmat sekali bukan? .. Segala Puji Bagi Allah! ..

3. NIat dan Mulai Dengan Basmalah ...

Punya niat sekian lama yang tak kunjung terlaksana? ACTION-kan sekarang! Mungkin anda hendak mendalami ilmu pengetahuan tertentu maka Yakinlah bahwa anda bisa dan don't forget to say Bismillah before you start to do something positive.

4. Belajar positive thinking ...

Kalau anda rasa terlalu banyak dibelenggu oleh pikiran negatif, mulai sekarang coba belajarlah ber-positive thinking. Perasaaan kalau anda tidak bisa atau sering bersikap menyalahkan misal, gantilah dengan sisi positif. Perbanyak isi pikiran dengan solusi, solusi dan solusi. Kuatkan dengan kata-kata motivasi.

5. Waktu jatuh cinta ...

Ingat bagaimana rasanya waktu anda jatuh cinta pertama kali pada pasangan anda? Coba ingat dan rasakan kembali … anda pasti jadi senyum-senyum sendiri. grin

6. Tenanglah ...

Kalau tiap harinya biasanya anda diburu waktu, cobalah hari ini anda rileks. Hirup napas dalam-dalam. Lakukan apa yang anda suka dengan santai, tanpa ada lagi yang dirasa mengejar-ngejar anda.

7. Mendoakan Orang Terkasih dan Orang Lain

Meskipun Mereka Jauh dari Jangkaun anda, bukan berarti anda tidak mempunyai tanggung jawab terhadap mereka, Nah. salah satu tanggung jawab anda adalah mendoakan mereka. demikan halnya pada oang lain.

8. Berbagilah ...

Apa yang anda Punya Baik Itu Pengetahuan, Material, Atau Bahkan hanya senyuman yang indah Usahakanlah untuk senantiasa berbagi, nisacaya orang lain akan mudah Berbagi dengan anda.

9. Belajar hal baru ...

Punya waktu luang lumayan panjang? Cobalah cari kegiatan baru yang bisa menambah keahlian anda. Bukan buat gagah-gagahan atau apa, tapi sebab anda memang dianugerahi kemampuan untuk terus meningkatkan diri.

10. Doa ...

Panjatkan doa sepenuh hati. Segala macam ujian yang anda hadapi, serahkanlah pada-Nya. Tuhan tidak pernah tidur …

Sama sekali tidak ada niat saya untuk menggurui anda semua. Tips di atas dimaksudkan sebagai pengingat kita bersama.

Silakan anda kurangi

atau tambahkan sesuai kecocokan hati anda. Tips lain boleh juga anda tambahkan dalam kotak komentar di bawah agar kita bisa belajar bersama untuk selalu hidup bahagia.

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How to Have a Better Sosial Life

1. Be confident in yourself
 If you are confident, you can do anything. If you don't feel confident, fake it. But to truly be confident, you should:

• Think of your qualities more often. What are the good things about you? Are you a nice person? Do you care about others? Are you smart?
• Also don't care much about your faults, because nobody is perfect, not even the gorgeous models you see around. Really, they only SEEM to be perfect, but take off all their make up and listen to their problems and you'll see that they are as imperfect as everybody else.
• Believe me, the way you look doesn't count, because one day it all will end, and who you are will last forever, so be happy with WHO you are, not WHAT you are.

2. Be stylish!

 Dress in a cool way, and no, you don't have to dress like all the models or dress the same way everyone else is. Being stylish is all about showing who you are by the way you dress, but in a cool way that makes you feel comfortable yet looking good. Go shopping for clothing that makes you feel comfortable and good-looking.

3. Give yourself a makeover if you feel like it.

 You don't need to change your looks to look just like that super hot model. Change your looks to feel better about yourself, not to please everyone else.

4. Go out more often.

 If you don't go out, you won't meet new people. There are lots of things going on, so invite a friend to go with you or if you have no friends then go by yourself then go out and look for some fun completely. Go to places that have many people, like the Mall or high school.

5. Make friends everywhere you go. 

Ok, maybe that's not so easy for some people. But actually it's quite easy:

• Well, making friends fast is about smiling, speaking your mind loud enough so people can hear and making eye contact. All you gotta do is to walk up to people and introduce yourself and just do it.
• Ok, if you are in the mall or somewhere else, it may be quite weird to go up to someone and tell your name, so a good way to start a conversation with someone is simply paying a compliment on their outfit and then do what I said previously to make friends.
• Be cool, and to be cool you must be relaxed, cause being nervous will just make you look pathetic and definitely uncool.5.

6. Develop relationships.

 If you've met someone, keep contact, or else they'll forget you. Talk to them sometimes, call them and invite them to go to the movie theater or just hang out, but don't let them forget you. If you have Facebook, get their Facebook too so you guys can keep in touch by Facebook. If they don't have Facebook, use MSN, Skype, email, and/or text-messaging.

7. Flirt. 

Whenever you see someone that seems interesting or that caught your eyes, don't be nervous, simply make eye contact, and say something like, "You have luscious lips." This will make them feel immediately intrigued and connected to you. If you decide to talk to them, just be yourself and be always cool. Don't be uncool. You've been doing that your whole life.

8. Have fun and love life! 

Some people say life's unfair, but it's not the life that's unfair, it's the WORLD that is unfair, not life. Try to live your life in the best way as possible and even though the world is a little unfair sometimes, there are always something out there to make you smile, right? (ok, that was a bit cliche, but it will always be true.)

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